The infamous single mother
When speaking of a single mother, it is unfair to generalize the same qualities for all, since not all mothers , because they are single, deserve the credit of fighters, sufferers and heroines .
Painfully the entertainment industry takes the image of the single mother to make emotional songs, movies, program themes, in short, because this medium is full of women denied to committed love. But the truth is that there is NOTHING ADMIRABLE in a mother who preferred her singleness to her family .
Unmarried and infamous single mother
Especially years ago, when machismo predominated, women have been the victims of real abuses by men. Who still lives circumstances like this, far from feeling and living as a victim comes out in a very dignified way.
However, it must be said that times have changed and the biggest abuses are no longer only the males commit. What began as a struggle against machismo now falls on the other extreme of abuse and oppression that is the hembrismo . As the word says, the hembrismo is the opposite of machismo . The abuse continues , what changed? That now it is a lady who shouts, who hits, the infidel, the one who sleeps with many, the one who goes out to get drunk, in sum the one who does not care about her children, the one who does not care about her husband, the one who does not he cares about his family ...
We have the habit of thinking that a single mother was abandoned. But not all have that history, many (the victimizers) are unmarried BECAUSE THEY DECIDED THEM . They had a partner, or even a husband, but it was they who did not have the capacity to love, to give in, to continue, to form a family. We all know that for there to be a family there must first be love between a man and a woman, when that is solid, marriage is built and the family rises. Educating a child is not something that you have to do alone , by nature it is always better when you have a father and mother.
For these women:
man is his competence not his complement,
his priority is his image, work, party, money, his ego ... and not his family,
their "rights" are more important than the right of their children to have a father and mother,
With these anti values, women will put all their effort to achieve their whims above the needs of their family. Even if she is a mother, any idea of family will make her feel frustrated .
It is no coincidence that current policies that are against the family are promoters of hembrism . The erroneous messages of these policies and their accomplices are:
All men are males X FALSE
Gender violence only occurs from a man towards a woman X FALSE
Studying and working are inalienable rights for women X FALSE
Hembrismo does not exist X FALSE
The truth is that not all men are males.
Violence has no gender, if there is violence between women and men and violence between same-sex couples is even greater than what happens in heterosexual couples.
The only thing that can be postponed for a mother should be to educate her children together with her father, titles and positions will be there, but it is impossible to return to the first years of a child.
If a mother left the relationship with the father of her children, because above him, her children and the whole future of the family, were her career, her work and her rights ... it is clear WHAT occupies the most important place of her lifetime.
If you keep your children it is because the law establishes it, although it is an unjust law. A female mother commits an infamy , because she chose for her children the loneliness and the suffering, she chose father patches instead of the real ones, and she gives them material substitutes when she is unable to give the daily example of love between mom and dad. She is not a stoic or a heroine, since she has always left the family.
