L get into argument with a with a man, he slaps me. L feel the pain, yet they tell me l provoked him l should have been quiet l should have been patient l should apologize to him.
L get into argument with a man l slap him they tell me l have no respect, no home training l should have been been quiet l should have been patient l should apologize to him. Because l am a woman. l don't have a right to be angry.
So the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.......
Because l am a woman, my husband cheats on me l am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that " it is their nature to cheats " l should slim down , dress better, cook good and pray harder and more pleasant.
l cheat l am called a whore , l have committed abomination. l have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support l have no respect and irresponsible mother. So l am sent packing, from the home we both built with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on m head. l am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children.
l m luckily to be allowed to go with my little one still sucking on my left breast. Three years later the little one is tagged a bastard, now my new name is after three. Because l am a woman
He is 28years and runa company he tagged wonderful,hardworking,focused,career oriented, successful at a young age.
l am 28 years and l run a company " hmmmm she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priority right , a hustler,love money, let her go get a husband oo"
And l wonder if being successfully has anything to do with gender.
Because l am a woman
l am not allowed to be have prodigy l can not be financially free,professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man aside me
l am tagged a generous leg opener. They never see the possibility that l actually had to go ups and downs to get to where l am..
Because l am a woman
A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for living.
A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after two years " ahhhh so early? Are you sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive that was why she killed her husband she is a witch" Because she is a woman
Because l am a woman
Thank you.
