Have you ever wanted to throw canon ball on someone when you cannot control your anger???
If you say, NO I have never felt like that ever in my life then you are lying not just to me but also yourself.
Ok you don’t have to tell me if you want to keep it within yourself but be true to yourself. Because to tell the truth, YES, I have wanted to throw canon ball on someone (a lot of time) and if it was in my hand, I would do that!
However, CONTROL, CONTROL, and CONTROL, that is what I keep telling myself at the back of my mind.
If negative people is around you, try your best to avoid getting involved with this kind of people. But of course, we can’t avoid friends and families with such thinking right so what I do is throw an imaginary canon ball at them inside my head and listen to what they say with one ear and take it from another. And it works for me, instead of arguing and fighting with them, I do everything in my head.
But after all my imaginary thinking is over, I don’t take it along with me for the rest of my life because I will try my best to forgive them. At least by not keeping it in my mind forever, I don’t have to feel stressed about it.
I know it happened and it’s over. That is what I keep telling myself.