The important thing is what we have lived, there is a Venezuelan saying that my sister Doryta used to say when she escaped without permission for the party and she says: "Nothing takes away from me what I have been given".
"Nada me quita lo bailado".
And yes, what we have enjoyed remains in our memory.
I consider that at 63 years old I have enjoyed it a lot and I am thankful for it.
A hug friend @lisfabian