It's like playing a game on difficult level and Indonesia might as well go down that route like former Yugoslavia haha. The Asian family pressure is real. That reminds me how my grandfather used to take care of 25 people ( his kids and his relatives including my grandmother's relatives). Strangely, he made it. He was pretty well-off. If he didn't take care of 25 people and paid for all their education up until university, he'd be much wealthier. This also reccurent, like My other mother despite making roughly about $40k/project, she takes care of a lot of people, and at the end of the day, she lives like a pauper. I aspire to make as much as her without all the burden involved haha.

Today, I can not imagine the same burden and don't want to. Thankfully, now I only have my mother to take care of, that eases up my burden a bit 😆 while I am working on fixing my financial, I am close to debt free, at least.