Lately, I feel like someone who has just gone out of the cave and quite bewildered of things around me. Itโs interesting how I am at the same time following and knowing trends but also feeling so behind on things. Unlike most people my age, I honestly think I am just a kid and without much responsibilities. Whenever I am talking to them, I canโt relate much and I hate to say this but sometimes I am forcing myself to relate to a lot of people.
Yes, I donโt understand why people have the need to get a mortgage.
I also donโt understand why people have to sacrifice their own happiness for others.
There are many things I canโt relate to but oh wellโฆ
At the same time, I think relatability matters a lot when socializing. It is the exhausting part that I have to constantly do once in a while. But being relatable to others can garner a sympathy and increase likeability that if youโre a commoner, itโs one way to survive. Afterall, they say that weโre social beings and I am just trying to live up to it.
Growing up, though I was instilled that everyone is my competition, I was honestly just happy doing my best. So, I never really cared if anyone makes more than me, more successful than me, or have more than me, I think like weโre all here vibing and thatโs all there is. But I donโt know how that changed in the last couple of years and how it affected me so much that I started caring about these things and forgot that when doing my best I definitely do well.
Thereโs this anecdote in my life that I like to remind myself once in a while. Horse wears a blinder to protect them from seeing the chaotic surroundings and helps them focus on their tasks. It helps them achieve their goal on the road or racetrack. I learned about this when I was a kid because I was curious why horses wear blinders and soon, I found out why. This is how Iโve honestly been living my life, I simply have some sort of blinders and don't care much about my chaotic environment & it was for the best. I am content with what I have and my life for the most part. But sometimes, life gets the best of me.
Somehow, there was a point in my life where I felt the need to socialize and relate to a lot of people.
I am by default socially clueless but because I am half street smart and I can camouflage my way in, socialization becomes a lot less of a chore. Still, itโs going to take me sometime to re-energize and going back to society again.
While small talk bores me, I enjoy engaging with people that offer some ideas, a good rant as well as just dark humor. I find it easier connecting with those people than those who donโt. But what I learned from recent elections in the country is that gaining favor and likeability arenโt done by being elitist. Sure, the smart ones would love to be surrounded by academics but that doesnโt guarantee a lot of votes but the one that dumbs down gains a lot more voters. Thatโs something that I clearly saw from the recent election and reminded me why I have the need to actually learn how to sympathize, relate, and make things a lot simpler. Perhaps changing my worldview and the way I approach things would be a game-changer for my life too.
Recently, I have been contemplating about the opportunity of business with my sister. But I know damn well now, that I need to think 100x before committing to it.
In business, I also learn that, you have to like people to thrive and flourish. Business is about people and when you donโt know them, donโt think about being an entrepreneur. This is why I notice that my dad, who was street smart and knows his way to gain favor from others , was more successful than my uncle who wasnโt really a street smart. That goes the same with my other family members. I think they went the route they shouldnโt because they werenโt street smart enough to own a business. Even for me, I honestly fit in fairly well with an office job and 9-5 than being a freelancer because I donโt do well with people (note : I can but that requires a lot more energy than I am willing to spend). โ
A lot of the time, I also outsource my marketing to my mom, my cousins or others, while I am dealing with the administration, financing and other spectrum of the business. For ideas, research, and anything that has to do with analytical, I am the expert. Itโs something I enjoy doing and executing. So, itโs why I donโt think I cut out of handling sales and marketing because I tried and it never ends well. I wonโt necessarily give up the idea of having business but I recognize areas that I definitely needed help and looking for a partner to complement that aspects.
Another confession Iโd make today is that I think that as I grow older, sharing stuff online is cringey. In the age where tiktok thrive and people share every pixels of their life online, I felt like itโs all cringe. However, I applauded that everyone has the confidence to go beyond and share their life to millions of strangers online that potentially invade their personal space and privacy. I wasnโt afraid of sharing mine in the past but not sure why I do lately. Itโs something I want to change this year too, to be more open and less reserved, hereโs to join the cringe!
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๐๐ข๐ค ๐ช๐ด ๐ข ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง-๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฐ๐บ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ซ๐ข & ๐ค๐ฐ๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ช๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ถ๐ณ . ๐ ๐ต๐บ๐ฑ๐ช๐ค๐ข๐ญ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ณ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ, ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ด, ๐ต๐ฆ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐บ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐บ. ๐๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ, ๐ข ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ง๐ญ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ญ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ณ๐ด๐ต ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฆ. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ด, ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ท๐ช๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ท๐ช๐ฆ๐ธ๐ด, ๐ต๐ฆ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ท๐ช๐ฆ๐ธ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด, ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฐ๐จ๐ณ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฉ๐บ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต. ๐๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ฃ๐ญ๐ถ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฏ, ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ค๐ข๐ญ ๐ค๐ถ๐ญ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ข๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฑ๐ช๐ค๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ข๐ถ๐ต๐ช๐ง๐ถ๐ญ ๐ด๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต๐ด ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ข๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ข๐บ. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ'๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ค๐ค๐ข๐ด๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ช๐ค๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด ๐ค๐ถ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ข๐ณ๐บ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ๐ด. ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ! ๐๐ฐ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ด๐ช๐ต๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ท๐ฐ๐ต๐ฆ, ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ. ๐ ๐ณ๐ฆ-๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ ๐ช๐ด ๐ข๐ญ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ. |