Hello stranger! I see you and absolutely relate with what's written here. Have dealt with the same issues. Been treated as a trophy and just a pretty face many times. Been asked to keep my thoughts to myself many times. Have heard how lucky and how easy I have it for me many times as well. It is ridiculous. But underneath the surface there has always been a raging storm, a broken, bullied person, a strong woman, a fighter, a silly alien, you know? Easy? Nah. Not at all. We don't have it easy.