The first step in getting the things you really want out of this life.... is deciding what it really is you want. Step two...; Check yourself, not everyone else around you. It doesn't matter what everyone else is doing, it only matters what you are doing.
Because...; you are separated from the whole, you are one with the elements. You don't have a life..., you ARE life. Step three...; Be positive, a positive mind finds opportunity in everything, whilst the negative mind finds only faults. Negativity can only find you if you are on the same frequency, so Always vibrate higher.
~cheers