Indonesian are open and friendly toward each other in general. Friends are like family, and family will wants to know so much about our-self, and with that comes the downside of it, they tend to ask some private yet sassy question, more over they would likely to ask those question in front of people.
"When Will You Marry?" is one of the meanest, sassy and kind of unacceptable question to be ask. But, this is a question you will often hear in a wedding ceremony, or in a family gatherings. Its a kind of questions you will really answer with grudge in the heart, while you can only answer it with smile or soft tone, as the one who ask those question might be one of you big family member.
Where Do You Works? This question might sound standard in occasional conversations, But what follow next might hurt your feeling a bit. Because after you responded, they might compare you job with the other member of the family's job, especially if they get a better salary.
Why Do You Break Up? now this a question which might bring back a bitter memories to those who recently gets into a breaks up.
its a shame you breaks up, because you two are a seems like a perfect couple. is one of the words that comes after that devastating questions. its a break up because the relationships is not working and we don't fit each other right?
Those are top sassy questions Indonesian usually ask in a family gathering, which is really not a comfortable question to answer for millennials.
oh and one other question or comment you look fat/thin now!, what happens?
do you ever face the same question in your place?
