Hi 
I fully understand the sense of responsibility you feel as the eldest child in your family . I’m in the same boat, and there really is that extra pressure to make sure everyone’s happy. I’m glad to see that doesn’t stop you from pursuing your own happiness, well done. I’m not much of a cook myself, but if you need someone to taste your desserts, I’ll volunteer haha, they look absolutely delicious!!
As you already have the help of two experienced users, I’ll just leave you with a bit of information and encourage you to explore the communities I’ve linked below.
Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.
Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
Have a good day!
RE: My Introductory Post :)