but you guys still keep the hate about what happened to be stronger than the desire to actually work towards improving this place.

Who is doing that? You were free to give examples but you didnt.
What hate? Hate for Steem? Ofc people will hate Steem. Steem (Justin) stole 5 million USD from our witnesses and whales.
How out of touch with reality are you when you make the demand for those that got their money stolen to stop hating STEEM. Would you?

Sure you and others might have the louder voice because of your stakes, but it is so loud that you only hear what you are talking among yourself, and praise each other as the ones that know it all...

Huh? Im not a big stakeholder. Far from it. None of these people like me and 100% of them would love if i went away because i call them out for being assholes when they act as assholes.
On Steem there is only 1 voice that matters, Justins, while on HIVE everyone's voice matters.
Fuck, Bernie, one of the top whales on HIVE literally hates me, downvotes almost every post i make because i have 100x less stake then he does but there are far more people that care about what i have to say then what he does.
You have whales that have direct control over the platform and you can still be heard despite that.
Give me 1 example of any other platform where that is the case!

HIVE is fucking brilliant.

This isn't a welcoming place, if you don't belong to the 'inner circles' in a way or another.

It is a welcoming place by default. I dont belong to any inner circle and i dont have to.
Take personal responsibility for your success. Dont play a victim and pretend that no one can get ahead. That is a lie.