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Communication is key to strong relationships/marriage. The words you say can mean alot about you. A wise man once said choose your words wisely even when you're angry, because a angry person will calm down but words wouldn't be reversed. Marriage is a very long journey that requires devotion, unity, love, faith and spoken words.
Survey has proven that the first 5 years of marriage can be very sweet then one or both partners get bored or looses interest. Only the strong will survive through the tough times. The love that comes after the tribulations is usually greater than the latter. Not talking from experience, I'm still completely single.
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These are 4 important words that can build and boost a healthy marriage.
I'm Sorry -- This is an expression of regret for something done or said. Admit to what you did wrong and say the words. It's not a sign of weakness, you're only willing to move over to a better discussion. If you really cherish your partner, these words isn't too big.
Forgive me -- Without these words, you're proud and full of ego. No one is perfect and it's a constant that the ones you love would be the one to hurt you the most. Asking for forgiveness is a smart decision for a healthy and happy relationship. This shows a true sign of apology.
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I was wrong -- To say I was wrong takes humility lowliness. Sometimes you might not be the wrong one, you just don't want to dig deep any further into the doom of anger and hatred. The words can save you from starving in your own house. The word "wrong" means a state of being mistaken or incorrect.
I love You this is the most important word in marriage. It connotes strong affection for your partner and is the best. Every member of the family must have a share of these words. There are just 2 ways of saying it. There's the unrealistic and the confident way. Two men can say the words and it doesn't mean the same thing. Be affirming, romantic, confident, passionate about every syllable of the words.
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With these few words of mine I believe I have convinced and not confused you that these 4 words are adamant to a healthy and happy marriage. Thank you for reading.
Always Lolade, the Love therapist.
