Is more frequently female but increasingly male, effeminate minded males.
She is rarely the victim of any physical harm or crime, but rather a victim of words and tone of voice.
This way she can easily create and imagine her victimhood and point the finger at the perpetrator, convincing onlookers that the perpetrator of her perceived victimhood is cruel and borderline evil.
She cares greatly of how strangers view her and will certainly be a narcissist.
She cares more about how strangers view her because they are easier to manipulate.
By now, those who once cared about her, care no more.
This is because she has abused them by making a scene, screaming and crying claiming to be a victim of their violence to the confused passers-by.
Due to her being a narcissist and caring greatly of what strangers think of her, it is beneficial for her to play the victim or the underdog.
People love the underdog.
She knows this very well.
She likes and NEEDS to feel in control of everything.
When it is obvious she can’t play the victim in some scenario’s, she will create a victim so as to take that victims side.
This also allows her to take control in that situation.
Controlling also means winning.
She must win by any means necessary.
It also allows her to look kind, caring and empathetic towards her newly created underdog.
If her child is being bullied in school and deeply upset by it, and her child tells their narcissistic mother how upset they are by it, that mother is more likely to take the side of the bully.
This is because she is less able to control the bully since they are not her child, and more able to control her own child's understanding of the world and their emotions through manipulation.
‘Oh poor Jacob! You’re constantly complaining about him. That isn’t very nice! I think you are the bully, not Jacob!’
Jacob the bully who has been abusing her child, has now been turned into Jacob the victim.
The mother now looks empathetic towards her newly created victim, caring and kind to any passer-by who may be over hearing part of the conversation between mother and child.
The mother looks great!
The perpetual victim looks fantastic!
Just some thoughts. What do you think?
