Security is linked to the heart of man more than anything else, many do not like to feel insecure and I am sure that no one likes to be out of security, is that our welfare is always what drives us to live and survive.
In this opportunity I want to talk about how to feel secure about ourselves. Because sometimes we do not have this security, how many times we have not felt used or perhaps we have had identity crises, identity crises are common in the life of human beings, common and dangerous because they can take away everything that can see us good, leaving us without self-esteem and without motivation and with the big question of who we are....
The security is linked to the motivation to do anything if we do not feel safe we will be unmotivated to perform any activity any action and this is the liver also to the identity that we have as human beings, in adolescence always as young people we identify with some music some musical style some clothes some color some car or some structural appearance of our surroundings, Perhaps fashions, languages, ways of walking, some type of shoe or some type of food, all this gives us identity, there is also cultural identity, but many times it is broken in our lives, we feel insecure because of things and injustices that occur daily.
Racism for example in the case of being black can be an insecurity for many people of this color, and how do they react to this? Simply the shield they use is aggression or depression as a reaction. But whatever the case may be, we need to have security, whether a man, woman or child needs security to live.
Security can be provided by a stable family, a tender grandchild, an obedient son, a healthy home, a loving husband, these are some things that make people grow up with a sure heart of themselves, this is what makes children, for example, when they grow up they feel confident of themselves because they have a mom who gives them that security, but when mom and dad are not aware of that child, what happens? They simply no longer have the security and will grow up with a lot of insecurity, taking on identities from any field in order to feel secure about themselves.
I believe that the generation that lives nowadays needs more than ever security, a security that gives him the identity alone, but where is this identity?
Thanks for your support Friends.