Your past:
Sometimes we think that is what happens happened so because of fate and that we have no control of our actions decisions that is why the past we see it as something that could not have been changed and we get depressed we feel satisfied with the past we have if we do nothing to change it because we think we are slaves of a destiny in which we have no decision and will, to live in it now and make decisions that guarantee a better future and forget the past are not tied to it, do not let the past control your present and your future, sometimes we carry a very heavy weight to carry, and this afflicts us, we take an attitude that we can not more and that the past is stopping us to reach and achieve many things on this road called life.
Don't try to be liked by everyone:
How many times we mold our way of being by what others say many times we get carried away by the advice that are not the ones we should listen to, how many times to be liked by everyone we end up making decisions that are not the right ones, you can not like everyone at the same time there will always be someone who our agree with you there will always be someone who will tell you: you can't make it, you are not for this, look it is the way we end up pleasing others that everything we buy or eat ends up being to fit in a group or to please others and we don't do it because it is our gift or our talents our personality.
I have an anecdote about when I tried to please everyone I lived to please everyone my life revolved around what other people thought of me so my self-esteem was based on other people liking me and this was wrong.
I always like to share this kind of messages I think that someone can help you, as human beings we face all kinds of situations we are not always strong there are days where we are weak and sometimes a word of encouragement a word of encouragement.