Grandmothers are just that—grandmothers. I'll look up the etymology of that word, which encompasses so many emotions. I felt that cat was like a grandfather to her. Life really is so unpredictable. There's a lot to say about this, but the important thing is that you were happy with your grandmother. What your parents did was a very good thing to keep the peace.

One year in one house and another year in the other house.

Thank you for sharing this very special story.

A big hug @soma18