This is the front, this is how boys want others to think it didn't matter. Why? Because it hurts too much-their heart-and their pride. Sociologists were surprised in a major study to learn the opposite of what popular culture tells us. Boys take a breakup with a girl much harder than girls, they carry the pain far longer, often for a lifetime. Sorry guys, I have listened to your sorrow and pain too often, and for too long to be able to do anything but confirm from my own, and your experience that breaking up with someone, you love is anything but a time to rejoice!
When any boy falls in love, he just wants to get his girl at any cost. So, he starts to impress her by showing her how good he is! He thinks that he has to do lots of things that's how he can get his love. In this way, they lost their personality. This is how many of the love stories ended before starting.
If you love someone, but you don’t know you will get her or not then you should forget her. Because you don’t have enough confidence that means you have a weakness. Girls always want confidence and a strong personality as their life partner. Another thing is over commitment, many examples can be given where boys are over-committed than girls, and that's how their relationship ended. So don’t be over committed.
Another thing is ignorance, yes it is one of the important things in any relationship. Girls like to ignore, but not to be ignored by others. You can say it as “ reverse theory.” Try it, it works.
It hurts more the older you get because you start thinking perhaps that was the last chance, there may never be another. We are very emotional and also fear losing one we love but when we become strong and mature we rule like a boss.
“Holding on and letting go,
both are the same
we just need to learn
what to do and when to do
I've loved and hurt
I've lived, and I am still living……”
This year will be recalled as “The Year of Lost Dreams” May it not also became the year of lost love ones-please be safe that we may meet again. It's all my thoughts some may agree and some may not but remember that love is always mysterious, and it will be.
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