“Five Signs He’s a Wolf”
I know some brothers will probably start hating me for this, but that's one of the hardest thing about being a teacher; teaching the truth even when it is not very convenient. I'm sorry guys, our sisters in here deserve to learn the secret codes, marrying wrong is not on our list of options.
Ladies, the honest truth is that you’ll never know if a man truly loves you at a go, all those stories about love at first sight and 'we just clicked' are just beautiful fantasies for Disney, you will truly know if a brother's love is sincere until you give him a try, time always has a way of revealing the true state of our hearts.
But, one thing you can always do for yourself is to try and limit your chance of meeting a wolf by simply learning how to spot them when they come.
Please let me share a few wolverinesigns with you;
#05 – Collecting Nuggets:
When a new guy starts giving you a notebook of details about yourself that you probably haven’t told him before, aunty don’t get carried away in excitement sitting there feeling like “omg, how did he know? He loves me too much". Fetching details is normal with wolves, the first thing they try to do is collect nuggets of information about you from friends, Facebook, etc and use it to their advantage when pursuing you, and because you're fascinated by what you hear, this trick will fall on you like a hit back to back. So relax my dear, don’t get caught in this old trick.
#04 – The Marriage Bogus:
Arhh! This one always works like magic. Just tell a lady you have intentions of marrying her and that’s it, she’ll just fall yakata and part her seas for you like the rod of Moses. Wolves know this, it’s too easy to use. When a man you just met starts giving you the marriage sermon please raise your hands and start sprinkling the blood of Jesus over your life! It is a common trap!
#03 – Cobwebbing:
Like spiders, wolves spin yarns to catch their prey. After a few minutes of meeting him you hear things like “i am making plans to join my uncle in Dubai very soon” “my father is pressuring me to get married very soon” “I just bought a land in Banana Island” “I work at the Zenith bank headquarters” – wolves know how to weave fictitious stories about their personality to impress you, because they know you always rejoice at the big big things you hear, especially our aunties that are not born again.. Today I cancel that spirit of LONG-THROAT over your life in the name of Jesus.
#02– Tom and Jerry:
Wolves are like Tom and Jerry, they will always be pursuing you even when you're have given them the NO answer a million times, he’ll be showering you with attention, gifts, and favors to the point where you start feeling uncomfortable with the NO decision you gave him. And the best thing? compromise! You start feeling like;
"Mike has really tried, even after I said no he is still showing love and care, let me give him a chance."
"Kelvin sponsored my birthday with all the touch times I have given him , I think he deserves some accolades 🤣🤣."
And there! Gotcha! Right where the wolf wants you, that compromising Delima.
Listen Aunty, do not love anyone out of pity or out of the effort they put in to win you, say thank you and stick to your decision, it's easier than signing divorce papers.
#01 – Come and Visit me:
Oh please! If you just met a guy and after few weeks he’s telling you “come, come, come”; just cross the road and walk on the other lane, that brother is a complete boko haram, the bomb hanging on his waist is looking for where to explode. Come and visit him for what? When his house is not central bank. And they way he will be pressuring you to come and see him, hmmmm...
"lets chill'; chill where? So that you will off light?
"Lets hangout"; in your house? Is it Mega chicken or Mr Biggs?
Hye, pressuring you into doing something you are not ready for is a popular character with wolves. If he is not ready to be meeting you in an open restaurant, please tell that brother to shift, he does not deserve your accolades.
I hope that tomorrow you won’t just sit there shining your teeth mumuciously as one brother is whitewashing you with these old tricks.
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