The other day I started to remember a game I used to play during college with my best friends.
It consisted in mentioning some characteristic of ours considered as a "defect" and from it, which "virtues" we could take out of it.
For example...
One of my friends was very suspicious and we suggested that he had the aptitude to study police investigation or public prosecution.
Another one did not attend classes and spent his shifts drawing the teachers as caricatures, or any other idea he had in mind, and we saw him as a plastic artist.
Yet another one was the one who always had several bottles of good quality alcoholic beverages in his house and shared them with us every time we got together for the slightest reason,
Look... we would celebrate any day haha.
and we always involved him in the world of hospitality, because that yes, he had good taste what he recommended to us 馃憣.
Photo taken with my Samsung A13 phone, I already had lunch, it's time to philosophize while traveling more than 1 hour.
All this got me thinking a few days ago when I was traveling by bus to my house and I had seen on TV an opinion about the family of the rich (millionaires) with respect to the salaried workers.
To paraphrase a bit, it said that the children of the rich would be rich because they would inherit their parents' money and so on down through their generation.
(I missed my critical thinking and that of my peers. And I started to philosophize...)
And if we think differently and analyze that this would not be the reason why that generation would live without economic deprivation easily?
Because yes, it's true, they inherit a lot of money... but...
More than that, the rich are successful people, who got to where they are with a set of beliefs, concepts, sacrifices and a system that made them reach their goals.
And mainly that, a SYSTEM.
That way of how to do things well, with a purpose, an objective, without seeking novelty but with constancy.
That is the knowledge that the children of millionaires inherit,
Those are the lessons that their parents teach them and are transmitted from generation to generation.
The children see how their parents are achieving what they want, how they live that process with their own eyes.
The falls, how they get up, how they take risks, their mentality.
That would be in my opinion how those children follow the path of success even being able to surpass their parents.
That's how Enrique Iglesias has reached fame. As well as Tump father and son.
That's how, for example, I see a future of success in Cristiano Ronaldo's son and Messi's son.
On many occasions we can reflect and take another point of departure in our judgment that would educate us and we would take advantage of it.
Let's not focus on the fact that things are "x" or "y", let's see what benefits and all the positive things we can get for our improvement and that of others.
And you, do you know other cases of parent-child success?
I hope you enjoyed reading me.
Hugs @legra
Spanish Version
El otro d铆a me puse a recordar un juego que hac铆a durante la universidad junto a mis mejores amigos.
Consist铆a en mencionar alguna caracter铆stica nuestra considerada como "defecto" y de ella, cu谩les "virtudes" pod铆amos sacarle.
Por ejemplo..
Uno de mis amigos era muy desconfiado sugerimos que tenia aptitudes para estudiar investigaci贸n policial o fiscalia.
Otro no atend铆a clases y pasaba los turnos dibujando a los profesores como caricaturas, u otra idea que tuviese en mente y lo ve铆amos como artista plastico
Incluso otro era el que siempre tenia varias botellas de bebidas alcoholicas de buena calidad en su casa y las compart铆a con nosotros cada vez que nos reun铆amos por el m谩s m铆nimo motivo,
Mira.. que celebrabamos cualquier dia jaja
y siempre lo involucramos en el mundo de la hosteler铆a, porque eso s铆, tenia buen gusto lo que nos recomendaba 馃憣
Foto tomada con mi tel茅fono Samsung A13, ya almorc茅, es hora de filosofar mientras viajo m谩s de 1 hora.
Todo esto me puso a reflexionar hace unos d铆as cuando viajaba en bus hacia mi casa y hab铆a visto en TV una opini贸n sobre la familia de los ricos (millonarios) con respecto a los obreros asalariados.
Parafraseando un poco, dec铆a que los hijos de los ricos ser铆an ricos porque heredarian el dinero de sus padres y as铆 sucesivamente con su generaci贸n.
(Echaba de menos mi pensamiento cr铆tico y el de mis compa帽eros. Y me puse a filosofar..)
驴Y si pensamos distinto y analizamos que ese no ser铆a el motivo por el cual esa generaci贸n vivir铆a sin carencias econ贸micas f谩cilmente?
Porque s铆, es verdad, heredan mucho money... pero..
M谩s que eso, los ricos son personas exitosas, que llegaron a donde est谩n con un conjunto de creencias, conceptos, sacrificios y un sistema que los hizo llegar a sus metas.
Y principalmente eso, un SISTEMA.
Esa manera de c贸mo hacer las cosas bien, con un prop贸sito, un objetivo, sin buscar la novedad sino con constancia.
Ese es el conocimiento que heredan los hijos de los millonarios,
Esas, son las ense帽anzas que sus padres les ense帽an y se transmiten de generaci贸n a generaci贸n.
Los hijos ven c贸mo sus padres est谩n logrando lo que quieren, c贸mo se vive ese proceso con sus propios ojos.
Las ca铆das, c贸mo se levantan, como arriesgan, su mentalidad.
Ese ser铆a a mi opini贸n c贸mo esos hijos siguen el camino de 茅xito incluso pudiendo superar a sus padres.
He ah铆 como Enrique Iglesias ha tocado la fama. As铆 como Trump padre e hijo.
He ah铆, como por ejemplo, veo un futuro de 茅xito en el hijo de Cristiano Ronaldo y el de Messi.
En muchas ocasiones podemos reflexionar y sacar otro punto de partida en nuestro juicio que nos educar铆a y sacar铆amos provecho.
No nos centremos que las cosas son "x" o "y", veamos qu茅 beneficios y todo lo positivo que podemos sacar para nuestra superaci贸n y la de los dem谩s.
驴Y t煤, conoces otros casos de 茅xito padre-hijo?
Espero que te halla gustado leerme.
Abrazoooo @legra
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The photo belongs to me
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