Having a child is a dream I have for over a decade before I actually decided to embark on the journey. it's nothing new to me because I love children. Everytime I see someone holding their baby I will always be fantasize about when I will have my own baby too.
Two years ago after I lost my dad, mom called and told me that it was time for me to get married and have my own babies or will I wait till I get older before starting to have baby.
Well all my sisters are a mother and Everytime we are in a gathering and they all hold their children, I will just be helping them carrying their children up and down without having my own and I promise to hold my own baby when next we met.
Left to me, I was really eager to have a baby because it is the experience I don't ever want to miss but how will I convince my soon to be husband to let have a baby, that is the first problem that I have..
Well he was not hard to convince because his parents have started to asked for grandchildren too. After our wedding, it didn't take long before I take in and when I told me he said we should have wait a little because he was not financially stable.
I started encourage him and supported him in every decision he make and that is how we have our baby. It's really not a easy decision but it is not what I can avoid. I love children so does he, it will be a waste if we doesn't make that decision on time and have our own baby. There is this friend of mine, she got married 2 years ago and the husband told her he doesn't want baby at the moment, she was then asking me how I was able to convince my hubby the truth is my baby love children a lot so it is not that a hard decision to make.
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