Choosing a man for what he looks means I haven't learned from all that's happening in the world today, a lot of people have fallen victim to domestic violence in relationships just because they are after a guy's physical appearance. Six packs, muscles and a handsome face haven't proven to be the reason for happy relationship and when I am ready to harbor a man's love in my heart, I will definitely not be rating anyone by their physical appearance. It is a guy attitude that will determine and I must be very certain that he is not pretending because there are many guys who won't show their true nature until they tie the knot with you.
There is nothing wrong with choosing someone who is handsome because I am beautiful and I want my kids to look good as well but making a guy's physical look the reason for choosing him could end in regret. With my existence in the world for two decades, I have learned that those muscles and handsome face won't be there forever so what will become of us when our beauty is gradually fading due to aging?
Whenever my friends are talking about a guy they turned down because he is not handsome, I shake my head in pity for them because most of them have ended up in abusive relationships before just because they were obsessed with only looks.
I don't understand why a guy's look is been overrated and I find it funny when a fat girl is having the choice of a guy with six packs. If we want to be fair with look, every human should only be attracted to what they look like.
I don't get attracted to looks and people who have found their way into my heart made it through their behavior. The easiest way to my heart is having a good behavior, I crush on guys who have great behavior. As a guy, you have to be humble, caring, and God-fearing.
I don't bother about your religion as long as you have the fear of God and you still have humanity left in you, I will find you irresistible.
In addition to all these, being intelligent always make guys look very good to me as well. I find them attractive and combining being intelligent to someone with good behavior makes a man perfect.
Whenever I look at my parent, I feel happy. My dad is not very handsome but my mom said other qualities beyond looks and they are happy today.
When I am ready to settle down, I won't be chasing after a guy's physical appearance as well. This doesn't mean I will be going for someone that not looking great but I will put other features I have listed above into consideration.
I just want someone I will be happy with for the rest of my life.
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