So message received ..lol what a lesson. Little siblings don't listen with words, only with actions.

I was abused as a kid and I thought it was normal to hit people, like whomever has the iron fist of terror rules kinda deal, I used to be a pretty mean playground mate...I wasn't above elbowing someone off the swing I wanted or hit them in the face with the adjacent one but as I grew up I realized it was really not ok and feel bad for being such a bully but what can you do. I got bullied and bullied back, I dunno. Sounded legit when I was 7 lol