Compression and success
About youth news is not always poetic and full of vitality. Recently, college students and other young people Dutch act frequently in news media, seems to indicate that the impressive capacity of poor young people now.
It's no wonder that all the people in the social transformation period will encounter a variety of puzzles and difficult to untie the knot, even more young people, because they are faced with greater pressure. Just because of the maturity or thought mature, for social life, work, marriage and career are full of desire and beautiful. However, the harsh reality has repeatedly torn the young life blueprint, and shattered their dreams about the future.
For example, the employment of nationhood, divorced school and social reality, book knowledge and practical knowledge is not compatible with the emotional setback, complicated interpersonal relationship and evil and so on, will let the young heart feel unbearable supremely pressure, thus feeling depressed.
Beijing Suicide Research and Prevention Center of the Chinese people released eight suicide risk factors were: the degree of depression, weight, history of attempted suicide, death was acute massive stress intensity, low quality of life chronic psychological stress, two days before his death there are serious interpersonal conflict, people who have had blood suicidal behavior, friends or acquaintances with suicidal behavior. All these factors both personal reasons, but also the objective of social factors, but whether it is personal or objective reasons, due to the poor under pressure, which makes people, especially young people end their lives early.
When life is not taken seriously, when life has no glory, success is just a kind of talk. As a result, only the impressive to succeed. Often the degree of success and the size and the impressive strength is proportional to the psychological stability and impressive ability is slowly and exercise in daily life. The impressive ability is not encountered difficulties and problems to head to fight a life-and-death struggle, but to constantly modify their life goals. Everyone is initially in the design of your life blueprint tend to perfect and ideal, but it is often difficult to achieve such a blueprint, or in the short term is difficult to become a reality. If not, the psychological pressure will be great. Then you need to modify the target.
Any modification of target can not only reduce the pressure, but also is another kind of survival ability to master. The original step is not up to the target is divided into two or three paces, it is easier to achieve. At this time, will not only affirm their own value and ability, and make your heart get pleasure and satisfaction, and a longer period to maintain confidence, step by step to climb the peak of life and career.
