really i think even though spells 100% do work we are all always doing various forms of magic in a sense without fully realising it ?
like the pleadian aspect of myself has told us threw barbra mcnarick
many of u constantly hypnotise yourselfs that u must be and have 2 be only cetain things... like dumb bad person made all these mistakes etc when really you where just living life and its all okay and all experiances are valuable 2 have...
so just life and see yourself and others as amasing even if they choose not 2 ! because all things perspectives are valuable and interesting & fun!
mostly i think we just need 2 value all life more .... and just be as positive to ourselves and others in whatever way(s) we can manage probably more then anything!