I was like "hey we don't even like each other, why are we doing this?"

A lot of the "tension" comes from the fact that we never get to see each other. Conflicting schedules and waaaaay overbooked on my end. Whenever we do spend time together we get along alright.

She's still stubborn though (as am I).

Every time one of our kids are being a demon I say, "man, they're acting just like you right now."