I don't know the details, so I can't comment on the drama. Personally I avoid drama, it's just too much for me.

However, I strongly disagree with nipple shaming or body/nudity shaming :( I don't understand how people shame anyone for sexual content as if they've never watched porn in their life.

As an artist- stop banning nipples on all social platforms!! D:

As a woman- bra's are torture for me. Also a quick check of the girl's account, I don't see anything nudity related or even close, since when is it a crime to pose for a photo...

Taking the time to learn any platform is important, because then we see if it works for us. I'm certainly still learning about Hive, but I mostly stick to art communities.
Just an example- I don't use Tik Tok and never plan to, it's not for me. Blogging isn't fun for everyone but it's certainly not getting enough exposure to find people who would find it fun.