Many times I wonder why some people prefer to see life through wrongly tinted glasses. The most annoying part is the fact that they do this with all sense of pride and accomplishment feeling like they are in a safe place.
Truth is, we are allowed to be selfish at times, but living a selfish life can only help you further end meaningful relationships and stir hate, where it has no business being. You need to understand that there is no such thing as the only way to get through to someone or to something. The only excluded case is when we talk about JESUS:
I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
John 14:16
Now, this is the only exception to the one-way principle of life. For every other case scenario, it is safe to say that you should always put yourself in the other person's shoes or at least try to fit in since all feet aren't equal.
You aren't allowed to get mad at a friend because you think he or she is responsible for doing something the person is not even aware of doing. That is just low and quite childish. The annoying part is when you do not even try to listen to what the person has to say. Then after a year or many weeks when somehow, nature brings the person your way, you eventually find out that your stupidity cost you a great friend's love for a while.
Now that is a better case compared to when the person, because of your selfish reasoning walks away from your life for good. You will never find out the truth and you will eternally live with a colored idea of who the person really is.
No matter how pissed you are, always try to sleep on it and figure out why such things happened before you flare up. It will not only keep you sane but will also help you master control over self. This is something that the world is lacking today.
You owe it to your friend to play it calm. Two captains cannot sail a ship nor two madmen agree that one is sane. You have to understand that your friendship is worth more than that Ego you are about to let loose. If you truly know the value of a friend, you will do everything in your power to ensure that you keep them.
When they get all one-sided in their thinking, do not fan their flames, rather point out their wrongs and still call them sweet names. That fire will eventually die down and they will love you all the more.
@klynic