Whenever we take any form of action , we should always have it in mind that we are responsible for whatever results that we get from those actions that we have taken , so that is why we need to ensure that we take the right actions so that we will not keep having regrets whenever we take so many wrong decisions in life..
It is sad to see that many people are not willing to take responsibility for their own actions so they always try to blame someone else for their own actions which was wrong or try to escape the responsibility on their own part..
Such people tend to take responsibility if the actions favours them but will refuse to take responsibility for actions that did not give them the desired results , such mentality is a hypocritical way of a living, you need to know you always have to be ready to take responsibility for whatever actions you take or whatever decisions that you have made or taken..
Do not let Any person convince you that you do not need to take responsibility for your actions, anyone who says such things to you will only make you to become an irresponsible person who is also a coward..
You need to own up to your mistakes and be ready to boldly accept your mistakes and move on and become a better person..., giving excuses or trying to defend your wrong actions might sound easy for you but it is not a honourable thing to do,you cannot keep making excuses all the time whenever you are wrong, just accept your errors and deal with them..
The reasons why some people do keep failing in life is because they keep repeating the same actions and they are not ready to take responsibility for those actions and be ready to fix them and make better decisions next time , they keep trying to excuse their actions and the cycle continues and they keep failing in whatever they do .
Stop looking for excuses all the time, instead of wasting your time creating various excuses for various actions, why not just simply focus on how you can ensure that you take better decisions next time , why can't you just simply accept that you have made mistakes already and improve on yourself and be able to ensure you will not repeat the mistakes again? Is that too difficult for you to do? It is not difficult to do , you need to be prepared mentally to be able to accept your responsibility for your actions, such mentality will make you treat life in a better way and help you to achieve the things which you desire in life.
You will even gain more self-respect whenever you are willing to accept responsibilities of actions that you take whether good or bad actions..,you will gain more confidence in yourself whenever you are bold enough to admit your errors and ready to work on it..
Things will get better for you when you have the will to accept responsibilities for actions that you take, it also enables you to be able to stay more careful before taking certain decisions..