How long are you going to keep holding those tears because you do not want them to consider you as a weak person? How long are you going to keep hiding the pains you are going through because you do not want them to see you as an emotional person who is really hurting? How long are you going to keep hurting yourself more while trying to impress other invididuals?
See it is perfectly normal for you to cry whenever the burden is too much for you to handle , you are human not a robot , you revealing your pains and crying it out does not make you a weak person , infact crying it out shows how prepared you her to release those burdens and overcome them , it shows how ready you are to fight your battles.
we need to let the emotions out instead of trying to hide it , the more you try to hide your pains or feelings the more you will be hurting yourself and those you are trying to impress might not even be aware of what is going on with your life..
Cry it out how often you can , seek solutions to the problems that is causing those tears , always feel free to express yourself the best way you can, do not allow opinion of to others to discourage you from becoming honest with yourself and your emotions , if you are deeply hurt ,show it out ..
It takes alot of maturity to be able to admit that you have a problem and be ready to fix it , you should not keep suffering and smiling , you should be determined to reveal your pains and be focused on how you can overcome all the pains..
I met someone earlier today and she was crying about a failed job interview and how she was so frustrated with job seeking and how it is affecting her mental life , she felt she crying about it was a bad idea , she felt so ashamed that she was crying because of a failed job interview, I had to counsel her and let her know that because she is crying does not makes her a weak person, it only shows that she is sincere with her feelings and ready to express it the right way , I was glad I was able to motivate her to smile again and I made her realise that because the job failed today do not mean she cannot get a great job in the future , infact I made her realise that she is special , no amount of job can match her greatness, she left the environment with a motivating spirit and I could see the happiness written all over her..
There are many people out there like her who feel it is shameful to express their feelings whenever they are hurt and facing various challenges in life , many people who are scared to let People know the pains they are going through and that has even made them to get more hurt during the process , when emotions are hiding for too long then it becomes dangerous to break person hiding it , it becomes a more serious problem especially when the person gets to the limit and they are not able to hold it anymore.. ..