Intentional Ghosting

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The truth is that I can't deny the fact that I haven't taken part in ghosting someone, and the truth is that I have done that before. Honestly speaking, I have done that to people who add no value to my life. Somehow some people can be quite annoying with their way of life; the approach is really something to worry about, but at that moment I have nothing left to do but ghost such kinds of people just to avoid some unnecessary disturbance which might lead to them taking offence.

But the whole truth of the matter is that I didn't do it just to neglect or to look down on such a person but to drive a sense of understanding that there should always be a limit to everything they do, which so many of them who are self-centred are used to, driving for their interest of their own without the consideration of others, which is not justified and equalised. Personally, due to the nature of things, I have always been triggered to ghost people when they needed my attention; for me, it was just for me to achieve something meaningful at that point in time. I was busy, whereas some can disturb and not add value to my life.

The truth is that I don't mingle with people who are there to learn from me only without me having one or two things to testify to and be proud of them for, be it financial support, knowledge, fun or many other attributes. There must be a way you are contributing to my wellbeing positively. Aside from that, I see such a person as a ghost, which makes me treat them as a ghost, just by avoiding their discussion, which makes no sense to me, making me live a single life at the moment just to avoid distractions.

If you haven't been seriously disturbed, you might not understand that people cannot think as you think, doing things at the wrong time, thinking and believing their priority can supersede yours, which is one of the things I don't tolerate. The reason for this is I have ways of doing things as planned as someone who is disciplined with principles. At that point of doing that which finds my interest, if someone is engaging in something that doesn't find my interest without knowing that I am busy, the only option is to ghost the person to avoid embarrassing the person.

I can't blame anyone who makes such decisions, because it is part of what I have experience with, which is more of self defense. The reason I take such decisions is that there is no option left for me to do other than to ghost, just for me to signal and let the person know that I am not in the mood to do what he or she wants because there is always time for everything in my life, while I ghost some due to their lifestyle, which seems to be unmeasurable to my own belief.

It can be reversed; it all depends. I can say if it is something minor, it can't be reversed. Honestly, if it is something that my ghosting cannot solve at the moment, which triggers me to take laws into my own hands to do otherwise, knowing fully well that I can't change such an individual character or behaviour, it is certain that I will let them go just to free life for those who can create an impact on me instead of destroying me.