Make sure you fall in love

Greetings!

As many people often go against the subject of falling in love and maintaining an intimate relationship with a partner because of the numerous pains it brings, especially when the two partners involved are not trustworthy of each other, falling in love is something that one must try to experience at least once in a lifetime.

Being in love with the right person is one of the sweetest things in this world; it's far sweeter than food. Yes, that's true, and I mean it. As much as food is precious in one's life, you'll agree with me that there are days when food alone will not be enough to live a fulfilling life. There are days when all we need is the assurance of love. You know, being in a relationship where the love is reciprocated makes you feel like you've found a family—a person who has your back anytime and any day. Even better, relationships like this often lead to marriage, hence solidifying the bond into a genuine family connection.

Many times, I have fallen in and out of love, and I must admit that those times I fell in love, I had some of the best moments of my life. Damn, love is sweet, and I must recommend it to anyone.
I remember the days when I would be eager to hear the voice of the person I was in love with. Those moments when the person finally came through made me feel on top of the world, and that "butterflies in my stomach" people say is 100% real. It’s not just an idiomatic expression. If you have ever fallen in love, you'll know what I mean. If you haven’t, you might see such words as mere exaggeration. Or maybe you've fallen in love before but didn’t feel the butterflies flying in your stomach. There’s only one answer to why it didn’t happen to you: either you didn’t love the person genuinely, or the love wasn’t reciprocated.

I know there are some laws in different sectors that don't allow a man or woman to get into a romantic relationship with the opposite sex, especially in seminaries. Well, I'm not against such laws, but these people really need to experience genuine love from someone who is not a family member at least once in their lifetime.

The best part of all of this happens when genuine lovers eventually get married. Wow! That home will be one place that either of them would always want to return to anytime they're away for work or any other reason.

Just like I said at the beginning, love is sweet, but it comes with a lot of troubles too, which makes many people avoid anything called "love." However, this shouldn’t stop anyone from pursuing love. Everyone deserves to taste its sweetness and feel like a "mumu" at least once in their lifetime.

Thanks for reading.

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