Hi there, greetings from an Indonesian Couchsurfing member!
I have known this community since I was in university, maybe around 2014-ish. But I just started to be a little bit "active" lately.
I know what you feel! I like loud music, I love rock or metal music, but only when I am alone. When I go outside and decide to meet other human beings, a loud sound can make me bad mood because I invest my time to hang out, talk, and share with other people.
Anyway, if someday you come to Indonesia, don't hesitate to poke me on Couchsurfing.
RE: Rant, Complain, Talk - Evening get-together with Couchsurfing friends: a nice recital, but not the best setting for conversation. / Reunión nocturna con amigos de Couchsurfing: buen recital, pero no el mejor escenario para charlar. 😅❤️