A friend told this to me;
I once loved a girl Patricia and I admired her so much. She was very beautiful and was the talk of the town.
She was so comfortable and had all a normal big girl would have. She was what I called a perfect girl.
She travelled to exclusive places round the world and spent time making cool cash. She lived a life from outside very comfortable.
I so much felt like being the only friend she had cause she had thousands of social media followers and get great comments on each post.
She was everyone's eye need and was the cake every Baker wished they had baked.
One day after my update on my online TV blog, I heard that she is dead. I was so shocked. Before having dropped the call I asked what killed her and the reply was that she committed suicide.
I was so sad to later know that she was never happy and was always down in depression. She had loads of problems but was covered by her beauty and the nice clothes she wore.
She never had real friends and was far from her family.
These are what I learnt from her life:
S- SHARE YOUR PAINS: We often think we are happy, but there is that thing that often makes us sad. Try to share your pains with at least one person.
H: HAPPINESS CAN BE CREATED: You can create happiness yourself. It all depends on you seeing the good in everything you do and placing the anxiety aside by finding or giving yourself a new hope for change.
A: ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS: Wait! What kind of questions are you asking? How are you asking it? Who are you asking from?
It feels good to tell you that the best questions and answers in the world are prior to asking the right people the right questions at the right time to get the right answer.
K: KINDNESS TOWARDS ONE'S SELF: When you're kind to yourself, self-love will create a place in you.
U- UNDERSTAND ALL SITUATION: When you try to understand all that happens to you, you've halfly solved your emotional problems. So create a moment to understand whatever happens to you.
S: STOP AND THINK: Sometimes we need to stop for a while to help us balance our flaws and set our continuation on a new pace. The right thinking, the right living.
H: HAPPEN TO LIFE: Don't ever let life happen to you, you've to take full control of your life. Depression is a deadly monster and you are the living hero to conquer it.
A: ALLOW PEOPLE IN: Just allow the right people into your life and your life will take the right moves.
K: KNOW OTHERS: Not all that glitters are gold, so what exactly is happening to that beautiful or handsome friend of yours. Ask them how they feel, be at peace with everyone and check on them once a while. Don't assume they are fine.
U: UTILIZE YOUR OPPORTUNITY: You're a living being because you're opportuned, don't let depression get you off, don't let sadness bring you down, don't let troubles weigh you down, share your thoughts, pains and sadness and utilize your opportunity.
What about you??
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