Guys obviously do not have as much admirers as ladies do, but that doesn't mean we don’t get at all LOL. I have gotten a few of them in my lifetime, so I think I have gotten some experience with female admirers. At first I did not really know how to handle it, I mean it was very strange hearing a girl say they like me, I was a teenager then and just went with the flow. I remember how I had to end my first relationship because after sometime I realized I needed to grow up and only liked her because she said she liked me, or should I say only liked how she liked me. As I grew older I got to understand what I wanted in a relationship which has made me politely decline some of the few advances I got from ladies.
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One I won’t forget in a hurry was when my younger brother’s school teacher decided to take a fancy to me. It was going on for a year without me knowing as she would ask my brother a lot about me and that guy would just open his mouth and wag his tongue without thinking. One time I went to a new church and saw her, I did not even recognize her because I am not really good with faces, but she came to say hello and introduced herself as my brother’s teacher which made me recall where I saw her face. A few months after that I got a call from an unknown number wishing me a happy birthday. Only to realize it was her. When I asked how she got my number she said she has her ways and that was how she got into my DM.
We talked for a few months, I thought she was just being friendly and all before she started the whole love thing. That was when she admitted she had been on my trail for over a year and she knew we were going to be together from the moment she saw me. Even when I told her I had a girlfriend she said she did not mind being a sidechick. I had to tell her that I wasn’t rich at all but she said it wasn’t an issue. It was as though she was obsessed with the idea of us being together and would not take No for an answer, and the worst part was that she was only 17 and l don’t date kids… It took a lot to get her off my trail, I had to block her everywhere and she would still find a way to call me. Thank God it stopped, I don’t know what made her stop, I am just happy she did.
THIS IS MY RESPONSE LADIES ON HIVE CONTEST #277
