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If you know me or had a conversation with me at any causal point, you can attest to the fact that I can be sarcastic. In most cases, I don't just want serious things to look big, so I just make them look silly. But then, I'm more serious than I seem to be sarcastic, and usually not as serious as I seem to physically look, and knowing when I'm serious and when I'm not is very vital if I am going to have to keep a relationship with anyone at all because even though I don't get angry easily, I'm prone to getting emotionally hurt very easily.
Last week, I was chatting with my girlfriend who hasn't been around for a while now, we talk every day, but that day became talk unusual when she said I might not see hear from her for the next two months; of course, It's only natural to ask why, but she said I shouldn't ask her why, and even if I did, she wasn't going to tell me anything. Now it was becoming strange because she's a very serious kind of person. At first, I was trying to make a joke out of it until she asked me if I was sure I loved her.
Seeing her in that serious mode (more serious than she normally is) I decided to be serious and started writing an epistle about love and how she shouldn't be asking me such a question. After reading my epistle, she said it wasn't as though she wasn't convinced but..... (Kept me in suspense for like 10 minutes) I started asking but what, what's going on knowing I have never seen her in such a mood before. After a lot of persuasion and calling, she finally replied saying she did something and now her life was in my hands, and if I try to jeopardize our love she would be in big trouble.
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Now all this was sounding strange, I know she can be hasty in making decisions, so it was easy to believe, "what have you done this time? I asked, she kept silent again, and I started another series of persuasion until she finally said she made a blood covenant, and I was part of it.
Hearing this, I immediately froze up, she continued by saying she didn't want to tell me knowing I wouldn't agree to it, but it was going to make life a lot easier for me. And I must promise that I wouldn't disappoint her, for if I do, she wouldn't recover from it. At this point, not knowing what to say again I just said we would talk later, and that I needed time to process what I heard. I went on thinking about everything over and over for almost the whole day, after which I sent her another epistle of how I was disappointed in the fact that she was putting her life in jeopardy for love, and she better go and undo whatever she did and bla bla bla...
She responded with her smile saying it was all a prank and she did nothing of such. At this point, I got angry. The first time I'm getting angry this year and gave her the silent treatment. She started pleading that it was all a joke, and never intended to upset me, but damn knowing you hardly joke around what the hell was that. Yeah, it wasn't really funny, and since that incident, taking her words seriously became hard... I told her it was the price she had to pay for such an expensive joke. Even though I take jokes a lot, I don't appreciate jokes that relate to life or play with people's emotions.
That's it for now guys, thanks for stopping by my blog today, until next time.
