As they said expirience makes the best teacher, i notice something from my relationship. Spouses that are mostly aggressive in relationships are likely to be hiding something and so the are not honest so they use anger as their defence mechanism so that their partners will always retreat on anything dat might expose the skeleton the have in the cub board. My experience, it hurts alot when you love you spouse and that spouse is playing with your emotions.
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