Help comes in so many ways , desperation and sometimes the conditions we find ourselves makes us accept some kind of help that is not worth accepting because we have no choice at the moment.yes of course there are sometimes when one will have any choice rather than accepting what is before him (help). Life and life presents us with so many challenges. Been so desperate in some things brings so many thoughts to ones mind and sometimes you make some decisions without minding the outcome this usually occurs when you are so much in need of money for example, in need of money to pay for school fees that can stop you from writing a very important exam or in need of money to settle a loan. Some condition sha do come with a lot of frustration and thereby leave one with no choice than to accept.
Accepting a help that is under a condition really depends on how important the help is , one chasing clout through you by rendering a help is still a way of the person being helped e.g to also render help to the helper back. Someone like me, i will accept the help though it depends on the kind of help and in the kind condition i am at that period. If it is a help that will lead to see finish honestly i will leave it but if it is the one that the person just needs a personal promotion i will just accept it without minding the outcome.
But to me helping someone one with this kind condition of clout ( an indirect return of help to a helper) is not really a help but a mean business, yeah it is a business because is now a 50:50 thing whereby you offered me a help and also needed my own help in return.
In conclusion i will accept the help but it depends on the condition and the situation i am in at that particular moment. If i am really in need of that help i will just pretend as if i don't know you want to use me to get help back, i just keep my steeze apart and get what i need first because at that moment that help is the most important thing and i don't need to cause what will make the helper change his mind , the main thing is just give me the thing first (render help).
But honestly life has really turned people's minds, most especially in a condition where there is no money , some people no longer consider what later life will be all they want is render that help there and then any other thing any one is talking about does not concern them. This can lead to a future problem yes because imagine when you helped someone in a critical condition and that person lives a private life and never wanted his face to show online and at the end the person that helped him later posted it online , the the person that is being helped will just be full of regrets and frustration.
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