I believe in this saying that in every year there is a new thing. In every new year there should be many changes in life pattern in all ramifications .
Though some people do not believe in such thing they only believe that once a friend is always a friend till maybe something falls out, but to me i do it every year. Once i enters a new year i use to withdraw some friends because there are some friends that are not useful so once it enters a different phase of a year i do what i call a total clean up , yes i call it a total cleanup because it involves checking all my contacts and all my friends to know the ones to drop and the ones to leave so that there will be some changes . Normally everyone is looking for survival so sometimes dropping of friends use to help one to grow because there are some of the friends that are hindrance to ones success and if you don't monitor this and withdraw this on time it will cause some issues because without withdrawing them some will turn to a parasite sucking you dry and dragging you back..
Life to me when one is still struggling it does not need someone that will keep delaying you and dragging you back but rather it needs a hustling spirit and not one that will delay you . Though that is true that everyone is important in live ,they have their role to play in life both the bad and the good but at a time as someone that needs improvement in life it does not need some unnecessary friends but rather the necessary ones that will help you achieve the things that will help your life.
Withdrawing some friends from your life once there is a new year is really a good one yeah because by then you have examined yourself to see who and who will be deleted and the ones to still carry along with. Before now there was when i use to consider friends thinking about them that when I leave them if will really affect my thinking because i am a type that i value my friends a lot but since i noticed that after valuing most of them they don't take someone as the person takes them so that is why i started having some friends changed and dropped because i take it that as i value you ,you have to value me that way, take me as i take you. Life is really so sweet and the joy of it sometimes is friends and mainly the ones that considers you and values you as you value them . So to have your full joy you have to consider those ones that values you and put the friendship in a equality way. Friendship matters alot but a healthy friendship and not the one that the love will be one sided. Equality of love makes friendship very sweet and lively so when it does not go that way i withdraw you once we enters a new year.
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