This week's question is very nice. What prevents our action? The question seems easy to see, but it does not seem so easy to me. There may be several reasons for this. I think it depends on the time in different cases. From our negative mentality to the environment around us or our relatives or our mentality or much more. Due to which our work is interrupted. Anyway I will share about this in the light of my personal life experience. I hope you like it. So let's get started.
We are engaged in various activities in our personal life from birth to death. Many times we come back after getting interrupted from different actions. The reasons may be different. Many times we think different kinds of negative thoughts before starting any action. Because of that negative thinking we come back from that action. Negative thinking is a very bad aspect of our actions. Negative thinking is so powerful that it acts as the biggest obstacle to our success. Which completely prevents our action.
Giving such a real example. After completing my SSC from the village, I went to Dhaka, our capital city, for admission. Then I picked up forms from a few colleges for admission. The last time I was going to be admitted, my father opposed it. He suddenly said that it is not possible to study in Dhaka city. There is more politics in the college. Moreover, college in Dhaka city is not studied. So when they are admitted there, those students are ruined. In fact, at that time my father had a negative attitude towards college in Dhaka city. Probably a friend of his had misinterpreted him towards Dhaka city. So in the end he did not allow me to get admission in any college in Dhaka city and due to their insistence I got admitted in a college in the village.
Even when I wanted to get admission in BSc (Hons) after passing H.S.C. Although my family agreed then my cousin and uncle did not agree. They advised my father to teach me a work and send me to a country in the Middle East. They had the idea that they had to study and become unemployed. That is, people are unemployed when they study. Because of that my parents were a bit hesitant and at last I was able to decide on my own. Even some other people told my father, what will happen after studying? Send him to work! The last time my father decided to admit me for honors. I am currently employed as an assistant teacher in a government primary school. Although this is not big post than this in our country but to be honest I am very good.
I will give one more example, when we completed BSc Honors and got first class then our sir offered us a job. He offered us to join Bangladesh Air Force. He had a friend who was a recruiting officer in the Air Force and his friend asked us to join a test to join. Recruitment officer of Air Force said to Sir, if your students are fit for the physical examination. Then we will take them. Some of us have decided to participate in that test. But to be honest, the political environment of our country was not good at that time. Then we are forced to come back from our decision. Because no vehicle was moving then. Moreover, many vehicles were vandalized and many vehicles were set on fire.
There are many reasons why our actions may be prevented. It depends on different things at different times. It could be because of our or our family's negative perceptions, or because of the prevents of our family members, or because of our relatives, or because of the environment. But I think it depends on the time. Because this prevention depends on different things at different times.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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