We are social creatures. We live together with many people in the society. There is a proverb in Bengali "Different thoughts of different people".
Since childhood we have heard different things from different people on the way to life. Especially in our slightest mistake, the people of the society have made fun of us in various ways. Even if they still find a mistake, they do not make the mistake of criticizing us for that mistake.
In fact, people of different classes and professions live in the society. There are many people in society who always find fault with others. Even if they don't find fault with anyone, they criticize the good deeds of others and criticize them. In fact, it has become their habit. Our case is no exception. Whenever they get a chance, they criticize us for good or bad. And because of their criticism we often deviate from our original goal.
In their words, to deviate from one's goal means to surrender oneself to them. Especially those who live in rural areas are the victims of such criticism or they are the victims of these people. Because of such criticism, many people have strayed from their destination and failed in their way of life. In other words, to return from the main goal in their criticism or bad words means to kill the axe on one's own feet.
To give a real example, I got a job in a project under the Ministry of Education run by the World Bank as soon as I completed Honors. My posting was in a madrasa. Then many people have made various kinds of bad comments about it. Many even said that it was a militant factory or an organization of a banned political organization. The riddle was that if I did not listen to the authorities of that madrasa, I would be killed. Of course he did not dare to say such things to me but all the time they used to say these things to my father and my father would come and tell me.
They even said I would not get paid. I laughed when I heard them and told my father to wait. Then for a long time when I started working there, people started talking nonsense. In fact, it was a government-run institution. But people would not stop talking nonsense about it. To be honest, that is their nature. Pull someone from behind so they can't move forward. So we have to control ourselves first. You need to be careful not to give in to their temptations and wait for the right time.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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