Our biggest shortcoming at the moment is that we don’t want to believe in ourselves.
We are confident people in our personal lives. But in our own case the difference of belief changes. Although we can easily believe anything said by others, there is a complete exception in our own case. As a result, only failure comes in our work. We never see the face of success.
But the main tool for success is trust yourself. Because that person cannot believe in himself. So how can other people trust that person? Moreover, if you do not believe in yourself or your work, success will never come in that work. There is no result other than frustration and giving up in the middle.
It is true that sometimes one has to trust others. But that does not mean disbelief in one's own work or in oneself. We often find that we simply believe when someone says something. Even in the words of others we lose confidence in our own work i.e. we lose faith in ourselves. As a result, we backed down and failed.
Let me give you an example. One day I was sitting in the exam and writing the correct answer to a question. At that time a friend of mine said that the answer to your question is not being written correctly. The answer to this question should not be written in this way. He said you have to write like me. I lost confidence in his words. At one point I got very confused and later I started believing his words and answering like him. But after taking the test, I realized that I had made a mistake, that is, I had lost faith in myself. Which is why I believe in the words of others I gave the wrong answer. That means I lost faith in myself. That's why I paid for the mistake at that time. That's why I still remember this incident.
This is how we run in the wrong direction if we lose faith in any of our decisions or actions. So our first task is to believe in ourselves. Because faith in one's work or in one's self brings us comfort in the same way that it moves us forward. Belief in ourselves gives us joy. So we need to believe in ourselves to overcome failure.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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