We are all more or less familiar with the word Restrain. But to be honest how much we apply this word to ourselves! We are constantly involved with different people in different environments or with different activities. There are good and bad parts to this. When we are associated with a good person or a good deed, our self-esteem is protected as our reputation grows. But if we are mixed up in a bad person or in a bad environment then our disrespect starts and we face self-esteem problems.
We have to keep our eyes and ears open in many aspects of our lives. We always have to do different kinds of work in order to survive. But we should refrain from doing things that make us feel inferior or cause us social disgrace or mental problems. Otherwise, it will cause unrest in our lives or we will become known as hated people in the society.
In fact, there are many things in our personal lives or in our careers or social situations that we need to restrain. Otherwise we have to face different complications at different times.
For example, we often compare ourselves to others. If our position is better than others, then we are arrogant. That is, ego is born in our mind. Again, if the position of others is better than ours, then we suffer from inferiority complex in our minds. Moreover, unrest begins in our minds.
Attack is the creation of man and the same creator. We should believe, every human being is unique, I am also different. It is inappropriate to belittle oneself by comparing oneself with others in one's sorrow or failure. Everyone is unique and different in their place. So in all cases we should restrain from all these low minded mentality.
We should all remember that the five fingers of our hand are not equal and not all fingers work equally. But the importance of each finger is immense. Similarly, every person in the society has different professions or there is some difference between them but the importance of every person in the society is immense.
There are many things that we need to avoid. As many times we enjoy some benefits as a result of the shadow of suffering in the minds of others or in the family of others. We should also refrain from that work. There are so many types it's hard to say. There are so many types it's hard to say. As a result, other people in the society will learn it by watching us and the society will become beautiful one day.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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