Silence and solitude allow an "enlightening meditation" of questions that one leaves in suspense for various reasons and without resolving them ex profeso, although one knows or believes to know the causes.
So one avoids them in order not to provoke situations that at certain moments or times are not convenient in every sense.
There is no reason to try to avoid repeating actions and consider that they will never be done again.
Nobody likes to have attitudes denaturalized in any way, especially when one knows that they are doing it and who is doing it too, and also knows all the instances of what is happening or will happen.
A refusal is not only a lack of desire to comply with an expectant question, many times created by oneself and that the other without committing oneself accepts doubtfully.
The meditation is sometimes a refuge, a kind of spiritual onanism where one escapes from the daily troubles or simply because one wishes to free oneself, sometimes without sense.
