Right! And it's the hardest for us, ironically! He doesn't even complain, it just is his reality, he's not gonna fuss about it even one more second.. But it's ourselves and our self-importance; thinking this is not our shit to do, we have more important things to do, we have other priorities, etc etc.. But it's all just a war with oneself. In the end, it is where we are right now, so let's be present with what is right now, with us.