Links begin beautifully and fun, but over time they become problematic. Why is it so?
Interestingly, most things in life become easier with time. For example, dance, swimming or just our work. But with links, it is not the cause and the fear is.
Fear is normal human emotion. When we are afraid, we can not feel anything else, and when we are not afraid, we feel everything else. Fear makes us cautious and careful. It adequately responds to threatening situations by increasing our sense of self-preservation and our energy to eventually come into battle.
Unfortunately, romantic relationships are almost always scary for us, mainly because people are not as consistent and reliable as we would like them to be. For example, your partner goes on a business trip and says he'll call before he goes to bed but does not. Or he/she is coming from work in a bad mood every night in the last week and you start to think that it's not from work, but because of you. Things change and this always raises doubts and uncertainties in the human soul.
Another reason that the fear of playing a big role in romantic relationships is that we think our partner is so wonderful that we are often afraid that we are not good enough for him/her. We are afraid of the pain that awaits us if he/she abandons us or likes someone else.
We come in contact, expecting it to put an end to our loneliness and to give us pleasure and love. And that happens, but the fear of losing the partner or those feelings also accompanies her. The way to deal with fear is to realize that it is an indispensable part of love affairs. We have to accept it together with the beautiful sides of the relationship, thus giving a chance for love to flourish despite our insecurity and inconsistency.
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