EVERY GIRL SHOULD be allowed to make decissions for herself and her body, right?The problem is that living in this society, where people are judge and shamed for thier choices, makes the really hard to do. Instead of being encourage to exercise our freedom over ourselves, we tend to be forced to follow what the norms dictate.
That goes both ways, by the way.Its as much a problem for people who are very liberated as for those who choose to be more conservative with their choices. In this chapter, we talk about how easily we judge people for their choices to be "wild" or prudes and why there really isn't anything wrong with either one of those things, as long as its by your own evolution, as long as you`re make the choices that feels right for you. Its important to be firm about saying yes or no to sex and to have the ability to figured out if you're in a healthy relationship.
What were trying to say is that. whatever happens, you have the final to say on what to do for your self. Nobody knows your body and your life better than your self, after all. If other people dont agree with your decision(the smart,thought-out kind, at least), well....they`re just gonna have to deal with it.
