I'm so glad that you understood Nancy. It is often easier to pass by on the other side of the road. She had the backing of her father and it makes doing the right thing in life so much easier .
As a grandmother I am involved in my grandchildren's lives and trust they know they can call on me for support whenever they need it. I can be more objective than their parents at times and they know that I love them whatever it is that's going on.
We are very complicated as humans I can't help thinking!