Well, you've never been to Broadmoor as far as I know, seems like many folks don't make it out of there. I think past traumatic and trying experiences can make us stronger people if we use them to grow and learn, but if we don't we may well end up going the opposite route. As a very young kid, I was dosed with a lot of psychiatric drugs, went to therapy, etc., but I grew and learned from that experience, and I now realize how much damage a home full of fighting can bring on the children.