Hello @beysyd. I loved your story. Being viewed and treated as equals by your parents even though you were the second child is a wonderful feeling. Your parents handled it perfectly. I could feel the love, respect, and camaraderie between you and your older sister.

I smiled while reading your story, especially when you say this about your younger brother, ten years your junior:

"my sister and I fought for him to sleep with us, so one day he would sleep with her and the next with me, it was easy to resolve conflicts this way"

That was lovely. I enjoyed reading. Take care and have a good weekend.