Hi Mr @denmarkguy. Nice to meet you.
Our hearts feel lost because there is room for "owning".
If you make room for someone in your heart, then that sense of belonging will be the bond that will always connect you to them. It doesn't matter if that person is far away and you never meet. It also doesn't matter if the person is still there or gone.
If you never feel belonging, then the person who is beside you or even in your bed, his presence is never in your heart and you will never feel the loss.

Lise has been fine and she was once happy to have you.